If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, the passion can ebb for the simple reason that you both know exactly what’s coming. It could be the best and dirtiest sex anyone has ever had, but it does not matter: it is the same as it was last time. It does not mean that you care less about your partner, or do not find them less sexually attractive, it just means that you need to break the spell of equality, and break out of your stale sex routine.
Admit It’s Time To Change Your Stale Sex Routine
All you have to do is talk. This is not a serious discussion this is a fun discussion. Think of it as a sexual brainstorming session. Your sexual partnership is part of a larger whole so treat this exercise holistically. How prepared is your partner to change her habits? Are you prepared? How much effort will it entail? It’s about both of you as individuals to facilitate change for the greater good of your love relationship.
Communicate About Your Sex Routine
First things first: Do you remember how you felt at the thought of being close to her, the things you’ve done to woo her in your arms and hold her there? Do you weigh less? Do you have more of an effort in the way you dressed? Do you spend much more on immoral activities? Going back to the beginning, you can do the things you put together, and made sure you stayed together longer than five minutes call. Be the man she fell in love again.
A practical guide on this subject is difficult to make without the primary key ingredient: good communication. If everything is hunky-dory in your relationship, changing your sex life will probably not be too much of a stretch. But you have to figure out what it is you want done differently, then talk about it in a fun and sexy way.